SSG, I'm sorry that you find yourself here, but you've come to a good place for support. Your story is very familar. It is much like mine. My H left emotionally first and then physically.
Can you provide us with a little more of your back story? How old are you and your H?
Please try not to take what your H has said to you personally. I know that it's very hard to do. You didn't break your H and you can not fix him. You can only control you. If there are things in what your H has said to you that sting. Look at those things and change those things about yourself that you don't like. Change for yourself, not your H.
Have you had a chance to read 'Divorce Remedy', yet? It's a very helpful tool in trying to understand how to get through this very painful time in your life.
Hang in there and keep posting. I promise that it does get better.
