Those are all *awesome* observations about yourself! I know it's hard, but try to remind yourself of these when you are feeling low. Try adding new ones too.
You are well on the way to becoming a woman only a fool would leave!
Me 43 W 38 M 5 T 7 SD20 S15, S13 with 1st W ILYBNILWY June 2010 Separation/Bomb July 2010 Divorce Feb 8, 2011