I can completely understand where you are coming from. My H had been coming around and playing family for about a month and I avoided ALL R talk. However, I finally just said "It's been nice that you have been here and everything has been great, but I do not want to be doing the same thing a week, a month, or a year from now. I want you to decide what you want. I'll give you a week to decide as you have been "deciding" for a year and I think this has gone on long enough." He said that that was fair and that we would talk again in a week.
However, a part of me wishes that I would have just left well enough alone because I think I did myself a disservice, but there does come a point in all of this that we just say "GIVE ME ANSWER"...I'm tired of limbo and I don't think there is anything wrong with that, but I'm probably not the right person to say that
Me: 31 H: 30 Kids: D9 Together almost 12 years Married almost 5 years EA began: 8/10 Separated: 3/11
