I have tried to discuss boundaries and what I need, but I think he either a) doesn't hear them or b)just ignores them and does exactly as he pleases. Also, he will NOT go to marriage counseling b/c he has no desire to discuss his feelings in front of a stranger. I think I might be able to talk him into MC if I was working right now, but I have been out of work for 5 months and we just do not have the extra money to do that. I have suggested some online things such as marriage builders and he didn't completely shut that down, so we'll see.
I think that is where I am at...the IF I choose to do so. I just don't know that he is going to do that work that is necessary and I cannot do it all by myself. It's not practical to pretend that I can and I think it's a no win situation.
How are things going with you? How's your D?
Me: 31 H: 30 Kids: D9 Together almost 12 years Married almost 5 years EA began: 8/10 Separated: 3/11
