Are you dropping the rope? Feels like you should. You hung - she called back 2 minutes later - let it go to voice mail.
I did this same thing with my H last night - wouldn't let the conversation end, had some .. need .. to try and make him see reason. But they won't - they can't.
Disengage. Interact on your terms and your timeline.
H: 39, Me: 37 SD: 18, S: 7 M: 9, T: 10 "I love you but am not in love with you" - 5/11 Discovered online affair - 7/11