I have never thought of it that way. I KNOW that I'm not getting through to him and that just may be the reason that I am not. He may feel attacked and of course he would want to defend himself as all of us would. You and SGC have really given me some food for thought and I am going to really try to put those things into practice and see if it gets everything more on an even keel.
I'll keep you guys posted!! Thanks again for taking the time to give me some wisdom
Me: 31 H: 30 Kids: D9 Together almost 12 years Married almost 5 years EA began: 8/10 Separated: 3/11