Reread your last post. Are those the actions of someone not in crisis? She is all over the place.
If it was just that she was done, she would not be reading your facebook, would not care if you hung up or hung upside down, would not be telling you it was another last, last chance.
Having said that, unfriend her. Not to retaliate. Because really, if you are going to write about her and MLC and your friends are going to. it really is best for her not to see it. And it is best for you. And quite frankly, if I were her, I'd be pis3ed, too.
That whole 30 minutes of going round and round with her would have been avoided.
Tad, you need to really and truly move forward. That is not to say to give up on your marriage, but, to heal. You cannot do that if you keep getting pulled into these kinds of things with her.
She is broken right now. And so, there is no way to make sense of what she is saying and doing. She doesnt even understand it so how can you possibly?
You also cannot possibly know how she feels. So, there is no possible good that will come from you trying to figure it out.
Unfriend her and if you must, explain simply why.
Stop trying to figure out if she is done, if she loves you, if you lost another chance. If you dont, you will continue to go in circles.
Let her walk her path, Tad. You walk yours. Really and truly walk it.
It starts with you letting her go, not engaging with her, becoming the man YOU want to be.
