W saw that I was on FB and messaged me. We had a thirty minute exchange about how she is not in an mlc, how her feelings are gone, how she no longer loves me, accused one of my friends of posting stuff and mlc about her, how I broke her heart a hundred times, how she no longer cares, says that she wants a friendship, how she is moving on, reminded me that we'll be divorced soon.....
She also said that last Monday's unofficial mediation was my "last opportunity" to show her that I have changed. It's funny that I always find out about these "last opportunities" after the fact.
Then she calls and starts in with the same stuff. After about 5 minutes, I told her that I had to go. I said: "I'll talk to you later. Bye."
Two minutes later the phone rings:
M: Hello.
W: Hanging up on me solves nothing. You didn't have to hang up on me.
M: I didn't. I told you goodbye.
W: No you didn't
M: Yes I did.
W: Well, I'm saying it now. Goodbye.
She hung up.
I've been thinking about deleting her as one of my friends on FB, but I just can't bring myself to do it. I've actually told her to delete me numerous times, but she won't do it.
What do I do people?
Why does she continue to read my page? Is this really MLC? Is she just so f*cking done with me?
You know what the sad thing is? I really do believe that she cares. She just doesn't love.
Tad
Currently: M 57 XW 58 Sons 39,34,32,30
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13
