Hey doggy... just an FYI that you can keep posting in one thread and we'll all see that there's a new post from you in it. Too many threads starts to get distracting and it's hard to follow the flow of what you are doing and how things are going for you.
Your W will have many ups and downs, emotionally. So while it's great and seems positive that she is being nice right now, understand that she is likely to be mean again, just around the corner.
The reality is, you need to start making some choices. We'll help and offer feedback, but it will be up to you to proceed.
The best advice at THIS TIME, though, is to detach.
How you do that will be to keep contact minimal and at best, if her contact to you is positive, wait a while... an hour... four... and then respond back very minimally, but in a pleasant way. Like you're thinking in the above post.
Not sure if you've seen the list of Do's and Don'ts... I'll look for it and post it hear when I find it...
You DO need to keep GALing, be consistent with 180s to see if their effects are hurtful / harmful / no effect... and then course correct...
and what ever you do, get off her emotional roller coaster!
