I guess I am now an official member of the DB club

[Woodman]

Well W figured out a way to not show up. She just emailed me and said she found an 800 number on the credit card and called it and paid off the balance with her debit card. There is no way she thought of this on her own. Someone who is very savvy and especially adept at hiding expenditures is giving her advice. I believe I see the hand of the OM in this. Doesn't surprise me. She cannot bring herself to come to OUR house and discuss property settlement. grandchildren, or even the weather. It's like she cannot bear to see me or the house. Is she a vanisher?
She is wanting this D finished in the minimum amount of time(8-24), but as long as she won't sit down and talk about property settlement with me, the more I can drag this thing out. I am planning on filing jointly on imcome tax this year. LOL