THIS is precisely the reason we talk about figuring out exactly who you are. Someone elses reactions or non-reactions should not be why you do or do not do something. Your actions should come from a place of truth for YOU. Once you shift your focus, once you really start to get that this is about you for YOU and about her for HER ... then these "interactions" will be simpler.
You won't ask what to do. You'll just be you and respond as such. It won't matter if your actions cause her to smile or frown, laugh or cry, return or run harder.
You'll be you.
Peace PEI
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
