My W was complaining prior to our dance lesson that she still isn't dancing enough. I am thinking WTF do you want from me? We've been out dancing nine times this month. Our dance teacher, who we've been working with for over a year helped to move us forward. He thinks I'm being too careful, and too focused and wants me to pick up the pace, and put more on my plate. He states that my plate still has room on it. The problem is I only see a saucer.
He helped us to see that we're still only dancing about half the dance styles. This is my W's frustration--she's sitting out too much. We picked another dance style to add to the mix--Bolero. The plan is to resume weekly dance lessons, work on three dances at this time--Samba, Hustle, Bolero. Continue with the dance formation and add a Waltz dance formation in the fall.
I wouldn't have been able to resolve this conflict on my own. I am the one slowing things down in the dance partnership.
My W asked me to cuddle her last night.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
