Or is it when that fear is conquered that you perform your best?
Peace.
But then what? Even after I recognize that fear does me no good, I still feel the fear. Maybe I'm getting better at hiding my emotions around my husband, but surely that isn't the foundation of a reconciled marriage, is it?
The recognition is only a step towards the goal, not the goal itself.
Hiding it can only last so long, and will most likely prolong it.
Think of a time since this drama in your life started when you felt really good. Even if it only lasted for a second.
Now think of a time where you felt this fear.
Were there differences in the external circumstances of your sitch between the two?
Or was it simply a difference in your state of mind?
BITS
Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.
