Originally Posted By: mgm32
And she finishes it off with "I will not reach out again... You don't have to respond either." Again...I have no words for her. I'm so hurt.


Hurt is fine. That is understandable.

The pitfall is fear from this. Fear that she will never contact you again so you try and hold on.

It is an unreasonable fear.

I agree with Startsky.

You did well.

Let her process all of this. Your words would only interrupt that process.

You need to process it as well.

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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.