Can I save my marriage? (long; please be patient)

[Starsky309]

I was suggesting validating her feelings, not her boyfriend.
This is the example I was thinking of when I posted.
http://www.divorcebusting.com/a_while_spouse_decides.htm

I've personally never seen this approach work. Not here, not elsewhere. And while it appears on a DB website, I'm not even sure it follows DB principles. I'd love to see MWD herself publicly comment on this article sometime, because it comes up here from time to time, but from my reading, it flies in the face of much of what is written in my DR book.