Should I contact her?

[Lonely Room]

Okay, brainstorming session.

This is what I think went wrong:
- In my first text from Friday, when I proposed to have a chat, I was too vague. I should have been more specific and propose a chat over Messenger.
- In my second text from Saturday, I wrote too much. I should have left the meeting thing out, and I definitely shouldn't have mentioned anything about what she might or not want to say.

I think my wife got confused by my first text and annoyed by the second one. That's why she snapped a bit with "and what do you mean about some things I want to tell you and things you want to hear?". My reply was mediating, and I really just wanted to "hear from her", nothing specific.

Conclusions:
- My wife accepted talks over Messenger "at some point" but not meeting yet.
- I pushed her a bit with my second text, and this is the point were I feel I failed most. I hope this didn't break any hope I might have had. I guess it's not a text that will save or destroy a marriage...

As a side note, yesterday I had to go to the house to pick-up some stuff (my wife wasn't there, and I informed her ahead) and she re-decorated the living room, took all my stuff out of it and dumped it in the hall, and also re-decorated a bit the bedroom.

What do you guys think?

Regards.