In all honesty you are correct in that i don't like your comments at all. They are presumptive and wrong. I didn't come in here to whine or bitch, and I certainly am not so naive to think that after reading one book that I am a new man and that my life has changed. I have lived long enough to realize that my wife is not goinng to listen to a thing that I have to say right now and maybe never.
I don't think that my wife is going to "realize the error of her ways" and coming running back into my arms. I don't think that my wife is a bitch either. I realize that we both contributed to a very contentious marriage and that neither of us are totally at fault, although I probably shoulder most of the responsiblity.
I am concerned because I have an autistic son, and my wife is struggling financially and I wanted to ask for some help, not a lecture. If you don't like my comments then I am sorry but I didn't appreciate your comments either in that you don't know me from Adam's housecat and have no idea what I am thinking, I am not your project so you can straighten out my "dumm ass."
"Someday we may look back on this and decide that Saving Private Ryan was the one decent thing we were able to pull out of this whole godawful mess."
