Thanks True, Cat and Antonia.

Yes Antonia, our sitches are similar. You are just further along than me. You've been a big help too. smile

Cat and True, the text I received was hours ago. If I send a thank you now, won't I just look like an idiot?

Quote:
"The more you say or act like you want something different from what she is telling you she wants, the more she sees you not listening to her"


And this is why I should be as dark as possible right?

Tad


Currently:
M 56 XW 57
Sons 38,33,31,29

The Sitch:
Married 26 years
EA w/ OM 9/10
Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary)
Sep 12/10
She wants D 1/11
W files 5/11
D final 10/11
XW marries OM 6/13