well, I got a lot of input there from everyone. Thanks.
I do get the "enabling" picture. Sometimes i just need to sit back and wait for the 2x4.
Plans changed, i am not going to bring wife home. Her mother is going to do it. I dont know why, and i didnt ask. She just told me she wanted to do it.
I have spent the last couple of days at the beach with some friends. No kids, a little bit of alcohol and alot of fun.
Actually dreading going home tomorrow. Not sure why, but i just have a pit in my stomach. Hopefully it wont last to long.
I am really having second thoughts about her being in the house full time. Wondering if life wouldnt just be easier to sell it and start over.