Divorce on the horizon?

[Truegritter]

Tad

I know this is tough.

The day to day trials and tribulations.

There comes a day when you will not ask such questions.

Hopefully because you realize they really don't matter.

The importance you place on such interactions is wasted energy.

I am telling you the quicker you can detach yourself from such musings the happier you will be and not at the cost of your M.

Just thank her for getting the supplies.

That's it.

It was a good thing for her to do yes?

I do remember well the days of placing so much importance on the words and interactions.

Until someone said to me:

"It doesn't matter what you want right now."

"Nothing you say or do will change that as much as you want it"

"This isn't about you. And you have no control over it."

"The more you say or act like you want something different from what she is telling you she wants, the more she sees you not listening to her"

I don't say this to hurt you but to help you Tad.

There is NOTHING you can do right now to help. There are things you can do to hurt.

Mostly yourself.

Step away.