Val, I'm tired been bustin A all day in the heat when it wasn't raining so I apoligze for not reading in depth.
My first take.. Go, have fun, be fun to hang with. nothing more than fun to hang with. Take all of the things that could prevent this from being simply fun and all of the the thing preventing you from being fun to be around ball them up stuff them in a bag and leave em behind in the car.
IMO you're analyzing way too much and starting to wrap yourself around the axle. stop. try to just be
From an old grunt that still looks for every exit and does threat analiysis. I need to take my own advice
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill