on a side nite about that love thing, i realized you can care for someone, but love is more powerful. Love though can increase and decrease making it easy to be unhappy because you remember the love times and forget that it takes time to get back to loving just as it took time to lose it. There can be feelings of guilt, too ... Feeling forgiven and forgiving a partner when they've said i don't love you is so important of a choice.
Maybe he won't stick around to get back yo loving you, but at least he will remember the good in you.
