Hi good people,

Without a response, I decided to send a clarifying text today, the one I sent yesterday was a bit vague.

I proposed that we can have some chats over Messenger, and after that we can meet somewhere to have a conversation, as there are many things she wants to tell me and that I want to hear.

She answered. That Messenger will be okay at some point, that she doesn't feel like meeting yet and asked what I meant with the things she wants to tell me and I want to hear. Then she said she wasn't ignoring my text, she was just thinking about it.

I answered back apologising about not explaining very well the meeting thing, that is was just an expression like 'I want to hear from you'. I also said that we can meet when we are both comfortable. Finally I asked if I was making sense, to leave the conversation open.

MHL, you are right, texting can be confusing for non-trivial things.

I feel that this round wasn't very good on my side. I sounded confusing and clinguy,right? But it's a first step and she kind of openened the Messenger option.

What are you guys opinions about what happened?

Thank you, regards.


Me: 36
Wife: 33
Together: 09/2007
Married: 03/2010
I love you but...: 06/2011
Separated: 06/2011
Rebuilding: 11/2011