Can I save my marriage? (long; please be patient)

[MadeToSucceed]

KD,

Thanks for those point. I'm going to try to respond on only have of her "advances" and see how that goes for me.

CS,

She comes home on August 7th but then leaves AGAIN to go to Korea for the World Championships on August 17th and won't be back until sometime in early September. The only reason I brought any of this up in the first place to her yesterday was the fact that she said I could stay beyond August 5th when we talked prior to her leaving for Europe. Since that wasn't in writing, I felt it needed to be addressed. If she insists on me leaving, I won't fight it. I really don't have a place to stay but I'll have to figure something out if necessary. I never really agreed to it...I really had no choice...basically the only one who can make it to where it is "ok" for me to stay is her.

I feel like she was having a real emotional moment because immediately after telling me she felt it best for me not to be here, she went down the path of not wanting to be around anyone and specifically said "no man" and not just me...but as you said and as I'm realizing, I can't make too much of that because I really have no idea what it is that she is doing. I prayed for her and I'm going to go hang out with a friend tonight and then church tomorrow so we'll see what's next. I don't really expect to hear from her for the next few days and I don't plan on messaging her myself either.