Hello everyone... I've just read my old posts and realized I haven't posted for over 4 months now - time flies when you're having fun!! (just kidding!) Anyway, I'm posting to say hi and also say that nothing has really changed since last time, well I should rephrase that - his situation hasn't changed but WAHEY, I HAVE :-)!!! I'm calmer, happier, stronger. Reading my old posts made me smile and realize I've come a long way (@ heartsblessing and all the others: THANK YOU again for making me stronger!) So, we are still on a rollercoaster and of course I join him when I'm having a weak moment but I'm doing absolutely ok. I wanted to post here with a question: I have since received an 'aggrement' from his solicitor in regards to selling our home. I should explain that more or less from the beginning, that was something HE wanted to do. He never really mentioned D, it was always about selling the house (and splitting the proceeds 50/50 which would be very much in my favour!! -reinforcing my suspicion he wants to sell swiftly and needs the money desperately). I believe he is broke, no savings, needs to put his adult daughter through university and desperately needs the money. Now, how do I react to that? Does anyone have any suggestions? I DO NOT WANT TO SELL our house. My plan is not to sign anything, but where do I go from there? I have already told him I am not planning to sign it - his reaction was more or less a moan/mumble (so nothing too scary) but I'm wondering how to go about it if the issue comes up again. I'm still standing strong and believe selling our house would be the most stupid thing to do but I'm a bit scared as I don't really know what the next step would be. I was wondering if I should just say: 'Well, if you so desperately want to sell the house, don't you think you should file for D first so we can get things in order properly?' Thought that might scare him off a bit, but then I don't want it to backfire, and I am not sure if even mentioning a D would be clever (I suppose not). Any suggestions would be great, am a bit lost.
