I also prayed for your sitch (a few days ago after feeling I was being directed to stop JUST praying for my own sitch and yours popped to mind!). I don't know if there is strength in numbers, but it seems like your husband's heart is softening - or as jbnati says, he is confused! I'd rather he be confused about you than saying the cold words he was saying several months ago.
I sooooooo wish there wasn't an OW involved in my sitch - confusion is soooooooooo much more hopeful than coldness (and knowing they are with the OW!)
And happy birthday! I hope it is a good year for you and the start of even BETTER things to come!
Me: 35 Him: 43 Together: 19 1/2 years 1st Bomb (IDLYAM): March 2011 2nd Bomb (OW): April 2011 He abandons home/bills/everything: May 2011 He's bought a new house for OW: September 2011