I do love him and I am offering to meet him halfway. I have not seen him in three weeks. I miss him. He on the other hand, says it ONLY been 3 weeks.
i want to go vist him and he wants me to. but he has laid down the law that i can ONLY stay a week with him (in his tiny apt.) I WANT to be able to stay longer if i WANTED to. I dont have that option. Dont you think that is a little extreme.
since you are an introvert maybe you can shed some more light on what life is like.
here are some things i dont understand, you can tell me if you think they are extreme and unreasonable.
*When we talk, he likes to get to the point! No beating around the bush, no talking for an hour. Its too much for him.
*When he comes home from work, (when we lived together), he will greet me and then retreat. Has to kinda decompress.
*On Sundays he decompresses, as he calls it. Wants to be left alone most of the day to get ready for the work week.
*Does not have any friends. One long distance friend.
*Goes to work and stays at home. (I am there, so there we are, he doesnt leave the house.) He reads, watches movies and thats about it.
*Long distance relationships work really well for him.
*Doesnt even answer his phone much, unless its me. His family calls and he ignores them because he doesnt feel like talking.
*Says I talk too much.
*Now he lives in a studio apt. and says its too cramped for two people. Says if I stayed more than a week he would have no place to be alone. HE HAS TO HAVE THAT. He needs it and gets irritated if he doesnt. Almost like a sickness.
*Want a very big home if we get married to get away.
*Children are not an option. Wants them but doesnt know if he is willing to give up his space.
I know he loves me but I am the extreme opposite. I just dont know if its gonna work. Because he isnt budging.
