There is a chance this is a positive for you. OM could of f'd up bad, which could be good for you.
Of course, she could have also stubbed her toe, got in a fight with the guy at the hotdog stand, or maybe she had too much to drink and was just acting stupid.
The point is, just acknowledge it for what it is. Don't make assumptions and don't create expectations.
Now, reading you texts, you found some times to validate her feelings, and you missed some opportunities.
Instead of me pointing them out, read it back over and I am sure you will see them.
One thing not to ignore, she made a request that you not be in the house when she gets home.
When is this? Does it shorten your original time to Aug. 5th?
There is a balance here between standing your ground and putting up a fight just to fight.
So if you have a reasonable place to stay, and you are comfortable with it, it may be wise you respect her request and not be there when she returns. You are in a tough stop on this one since it is her house, and you have already agreed to leave per court order.
Typically it is recommended for the LBS NOT to leave the house, but...
Your call.
But regardless, either physically or emotionally, give her some space to work through whatever she is dealing with right now. I think KD mentioned it, the chances of you f'n something up are greater than helping right now.
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Then this morning she actually sent ME two Bible verses via text before she went to practice. I told her to have a great day and I hoped she was feeling a little better.
She responded she was at practice and had to get it done despite how she feels. I didn't respond. That's the last I've heard from her today.
This was good.
A really tough thing through this is not getting too worked up over these types of things.
I have seen all of the different forms of contact.
Random friendly.
Random upset.
Just random.
Be strong.
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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.
