I also discovered recently that she had posted an on-line profile at a dating site, and told her that I knew. She appears to have taken her profile down after saying that she was only curious.
She's not curious, she's fishing.
The EA/PA she had with OM left her wanting to continue feeling all that excitement,energy, & romance. She's looking for another man to give her those emotional feelings of being in-love. It's as if she's addicted.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!