Do I attempt to reach back out and ask again about the house situation or just wait closer until August to bring it up if she doesn't mention it to me? I kind of feel like I should wait until I hear from her again because I may have overwhelmed her and don't want to add fuel to the fire.
Yes, sounds like you have the right idea. I going to go with CS on this one. Let it be for now. She needs time to process all of this. Don't reach out to her - not doing so appeared to be working well for you.