Wife no longer in love with me

[~¤DG¤~]

I won't lie, detaching is hard, but it's necessary.
It doesn't mean your giving up on her or your M, it just means that you are going to live your life regardless of what she does.

Yes, it is very hard. But it also helps. A lot.
My H & I have been separated a little over 5 months now and have virtually NC for the past 6 weeks or so. At times it makes me feel all sorts of negative emotions but the majority of it actually helps. It doesn't mean that I don't love my H or don't want my M to work, it just means that I am taking the time to work on ME, so no matter what, I will be a better person regardless of the outcome of my M.

Are you in counseling for yourself? If not, it is something I would highly suggest. I've been in it over 6 months now and it has made all the difference in the world.