Hey DG, I have never believed in them...but reading them sometimes I get goosebumps. I have not cried in a while until yesterday when I went and filed for Divorce...I was ok until I got home and layed on the couch and watched tv....It seemed every show and commercial was about a lovley couple...I shut the tv off and several hours later my eyes hurt from all the crying. I got up today with the bright sunshine and said to myself this is a brand new day for OLW and I will be ok.....So I follow your thread....and we all can say what we should have done...If we learn this hard life lesson and then maybe we will be blessed with another chance at a relationship....That is what I live by....