Oh, and one sure way for them to be hesitant of your changes is for you to tell her you changed.
This is very true. Just show her the changes. I know you're not in the same place with her, but you can show her just through interactions. Just do it, don't talk about it.
Originally Posted By: Country_Song
I sense that you got pretty excited about her initiating a little more contact and you overreacted. Pushed too much.
You can see by her reaction that you overwhelmed her.
Yes, I agree with CS. It seemed like she opened the door a bit and you just came right at her. It seemed like she started backing off toward the end of the conversation because she may have been overwhelmed.
You can do this, mgm. Slow and steady though. It's a marathon, not a sprint. Or 1st & 25 - you don't have to get all the yards back on this down - you have a couple more.
