Divorcing mentally does make sense. I can and will do this. The cost of this divorce was only 84.00. It is something that I felt I must do to move on...Being in limbo was killing me...Every nice thing she said or gesture...Now its written in stone I guess. Only she can stop it. But I will proceed and get it done asap. Then let life begin again for me....This journey I and others have been on is a very valueable learning experience. I will take this life lessons and grow. I wanted to show W, that after all of these years she would finally have the man she wanted. But I will have to show another woman one day how good of a catch OLW is....I will continue this journey alone....
You are sure wise in your responses. I do feel better and could have felt much better not using the above as excuses....Just got an interesting call from my W. She was with her sister tonight at a concert about an hour an a half from where she lives. She called and asked me if I would talk with her while she drives these country roads. I said yes...we had a very pleasant chat. No D talk, no R talk just talking like the old days. She then told me that she always thinks to call me first...don't know what that means. As she pulled in her driveway, I told her good night and she thanked me again......I have no idea where this goes...yesterday she was screaming at me to file the divorce and that I am her sworn enemy....And tonight out of all the people she could have called she calls me....Go figure....
Hello everyone, its been a while since my last post and nothing really has gone on different in my sich.
I do however have a question maybe some of you vets can help me with. In an earlier post I told everyone that I went to court and filed for the D. Now almost a month later she has not been to court to sign the waiver to proceed. Now mind you its only a minor thing, but even though she tells me she is in love with OM and does not want to be married to me any longer, I wonder why she has not went to sign the waiver. Once thats signed the D can be final within 2 weeks. Based on everything she has said to me over the last year, her being under my control (as she puts it)would be over. So is this normal wanting a D so bad and being just a signature away from it and she is drsgging her feet. I just wonder whats going on in her mind. She has never backslid and even gave me the hint that she would be open to R. Just journaling here. I lurk and read here everyday to gather some good feelings from other sich's. I know I am ready to move on......
