Regarding my last post, thank you CS, Karma and KF. I truly appreciate the quick responses. I started out wanting to write my response e-mail to "prove" certain things to my wife - that I'm alright with her choice, that I'm acknowledging her concern, that I'm strong, that I'm funny, etc. But thanks to y'all, I realize it was too much fluff. I want to so much to communicate my changes to my wife, that at times I forget about the basic DB/Dr rules.