Your H is very much in a fog right now, and chances are he has no idea what is going on in his head either.
When my H left, I rearranged my living room to how I wanted it and he never did. I also did a thorough cleaning of my kitchen and reorganized all my cupboards. It made me feel like things were more "mine" again, and not "ours" I think it's important to do whatever you can to get through the hard moments.
Of course you'll have both good and bad days, but the good news is eventually the good will out weigh the bad.
"Everyone you meet has baggage. Find someone who loves you enough to help you unpack." ¤Formerly DelinquentGurl¤