In my sitch I reluctantly did the paperwork. Stressing the whole time that I did not agree, but if she insisted I would respect her wishes. Stalling in my opinion is another pursuit method and just ticks them off more. Right now the D is a wonderful fantasy. Doing paperwork turns it into the grim reality that it is. Discussions such as child care arrangements, living arrangements, finances, tend to put things into perspective for WAW's who think they'll spend every night drinking martinis at clubs. Not saying your W is like this.
Just be patient give it time. It took months for my W to accept my changes, and I backslide every so often. Sometimes it's not even the changes but that you care enough to make them. Don't push don't prod, let her come to you. Make yourself irresistible.
