Gotta love the busting on the secret phone, thing...
Anyhow, not sure if you're joking about the stalking thing. I'm just guessing here... maybe she was at the mall... to shop...? Are you sure you know her car well enough to know it was hers? And I'm guessing your truck is not hard to miss and I can't imagine she would intentionally park only two stalls from you...
BTW, I'm guessing you really don't want a D, otherwise you wouldn't be here. So the question is, are you making sure you are taking EVER minute of time necessary for responses in the D process?
Because you understand that if you are going to work on YOU so that you become a man only a fool would leave... that could take some time...
oh, I mean could take some time for your W to notice...