Well guys, I know my situation has been bizarre to say the least. As I have gathered a WAS in the midst of a MLC , one can't chart a course....now that I realize this marathon as everyone calls it has to end sometime for the both of us...
I can only say this, I filed because I it has to stop sometime. As long as we can't get along, it affects my children....I have been seeing a C for well over a year now and my W says that she does not need any help...even when I tell her about my C and the self help books I have read, she says that all of the PHD's don't know her and therefore could never render a diagnosis. So if she wants a D and will not give up OM, she has it.....And to answer your question KD, only time will tell.. One thing I can say for sure is I have doen everything for me and in doing this have reconized that all things are fixable...as the experts say on here not all marriages can be fixed...I now agree, however I will move on and if one day my W calls me to talk....I will listen...I will keep you posted.
