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My mind is racing, do I dare hope she was referring to me.


shocked No! Stay away from FB!

Some men are such push-overs. One little peck of a kiss and you go nuts thinking she may be changing her mind....(all the while packing you up to move out). She was in a good mood b/c you were not being "difficult" (and she was finally a free woman).....and you were in a good mood b/c she gave you a thank-you hug, then you go and corner her off and tell her to kiss you! It would almost sound kind of cute if I didn't know a family was going down a drain.

You were very lucky she still went to dinner. She really didn't want to cook after doing all that work!

Please....please be careful about using S10 to ask questions regarding his mother. It's not fair to him. Don't you realize that his mom probably told him what she did to ease his emotions or to shut him up...one of the other. But you took what she told S10 and now you're "in heaven".

You need to stay away from any contact with her as long as you can. Let her contact you first and see how she sounds. Don't get your hopes too high just yet. Wait until the kids are exchanged and you see her face to face. See if she's flirty or just being nice. I advise you not to bring up what happed the day of the move. If she pursues you, play along with the game if you want to, but make dog sure you do not jump in bed with her. This woman needs to know who she wants, and if's you then she needs to work her behind off chasing you. Now that things were ended nicely, cool your heals a few days. If you act all gooey eyed over her, she will not be turned on at all.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!