I get that co-dependent R with your W. So how does life work for you when you don't have to deal with your feelings?
Of course, there's a need to empathize with your W, so you'll have to open the gates a little to your feelings to do that.
I'm just wondering, do you have a process where you can be safe by yourself, yet still process emotions? I don't know, I'm just putting thoughts out there to get an idea...
Ultimately, you are here to work on you and maybe save your M. I'm just trying to get some basis to work with you on those things...
I don't remember if you mentioned any GAL activities or 180s you might be doing right now...