There might be another option...well there are always other options. They might be another option I'd recommend.
Take a look at the post titled:
Piecing and Happy or Struggling
See if this is soemthing that sounds interesting to you. Figure out if your H is capable or willing to try this.
KLA = Keeping Love Alive
It's a program me and my wife listen to once a year. We started well after we were piecing, but I could see how it might have helped us sooner as well.
Up to you.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK