Mk, before I met STBXW I was my own person. I viewed myself ready for what I viewed as the next life stage. I was primed for marriage and a family. I was looking for a wife in every sense of the word as I understood it. So we began, it lasted 29 yrs. Our 29th is in 3 weeks.

My point: I will be ready for another R when I am my own person again, until then I work on me. When I am ready someone else will be ready. What will remain then is to meet that person. That doesn't mean I am alone. I have found surprising enough a growing group of friends and supporters

This is what is right for me. You will decide what and when is right for you. IMO we need to be ready, we need to be complete as our own person. I agree with jbnati.

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Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55
D 30
S 27

You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill