I think one thing you will hear a lot in DB'ing is avoiding the "mind-reading". It will drive you crazy. I think you handled it well. You listened to what he was willing to tell you, but you didn't pressure him.

BITS
Me:46 / W:47 / M:19 / T:21 / S13
Bomb#1: 5/8/2008
MC: 5/2008 - 4/2010
Bomb#2: 2/10/2011
W moves out 5/7/2011

'With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.' - Matt. 19:26