DG, I am so sorry. I wish there was something I could say to make you feel better.
Originally Posted By: Telemark
I don't think you want to be the one to declare your marriage DOA yet ( I could be wrong, of course...). But I know that feeling: we're the only ones trying to save our M's, the rejection and loss of love by our S's is intensely painful, the lack of any physical contact or intimacy is difficult and frustrating, there must be someone out there who will love us the way we deserve to be loved...it feels like we're trying to push a rope up a hill.
You can move on but still leave the door open. It would be sad if you / I / we called it quits only to realize later that if we gave things more time they would have come around.
I am with Telemark on this one. I suggest giving yourself a few days to cool off, and see where you are.
Right now, too, you only know part of the story. Don't let assumptions get the best of you.
