"One other thing I forgot to mention is that she wanted me to sleep on the couch. I told her no. If she was the one that didn't want to work on things then I wasn't going to be the one to leave the bedroom."

Well played. I made the mistake of moving out of our bedroom the week I was bombed ("I'll show her what wonderful guy I am and fall on my sword...") and now attempting to move back in would lead to more problems, so I remain in the spare bedroom.

H 56
W 48
D27,S21
SS25
SS22 Severely autistic
M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs.
"I've never loved you" 3/7/2011
Separated 8/7/2011
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