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GAL is the one thing where I have not excelled at DB'ing. I haven't had MY time in so long I wouldn't know where to begin. I have put so much energy into the kids and my M that I have been neglecting me.

This is an important part to the process. It works on money level.
It helps you to not think about the sitch so much.
It helps you to find yourself again, let's face it, when we get married we lose out individualness(?) we become inmeshed with our spouse. We lose our Identity.
It helps rediscovering old hobbies or new ones.
IT MAKES YOU BECOME ATTRACTIVE AGAIN.

That's the key.

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