Oh, my life changed a lot in the last 6 weeks.

I found friends that I thought I never had and am spending 5 evenings a week away from home with them. I'm supporting my mum in her battle with cancer from 2000 miles away.

I've learned to surf, I've started martial art classes, I found a nice place to stay after the initial hole, I bought a car, I didn't miss a single day of work. I've joined a guitar club and a film club.

I got back to the gym and finally have a workout plan to put on some weight and muscle.

I gave my wife the space and time she needed, without talking to her a single time about other things than practical things. And this only happened 3 times.

I've read DR and other 2 books about love and relationships.

I did everything at my reach.


Me: 36
Wife: 33
Together: 09/2007
Married: 03/2010
I love you but...: 06/2011
Separated: 06/2011
Rebuilding: 11/2011