I found friends that I thought I never had and am spending 5 evenings a week away from home with them. I'm supporting my mum in her battle with cancer from 2000 miles away.
I've learned to surf, I've started martial art classes, I found a nice place to stay after the initial hole, I bought a car, I didn't miss a single day of work. I've joined a guitar club and a film club.
I got back to the gym and finally have a workout plan to put on some weight and muscle.
I gave my wife the space and time she needed, without talking to her a single time about other things than practical things. And this only happened 3 times.
I've read DR and other 2 books about love and relationships.
I did everything at my reach.
Me: 36 Wife: 33 Together: 09/2007 Married: 03/2010 I love you but...: 06/2011 Separated: 06/2011 Rebuilding: 11/2011