BM77, there is always hope, but it's the hope that you have to hold for the M. Your W is at the center of her universe, and nothing else matters to her except her own needs & desires.
"This morning she changed her tune and called me every name in the book for putting her and the kids out on the street. She told me that when she said that she was testing me to see if I did the right thing by her and the kids and I be the one to move out."
Do NOT move out, and try to keep your kids in their house. Let your W feel the consequences for her words and actions. She is convinced she's doing nothing wrong and you are doing nothing right.
Detach and back away; sounds like you already know how to do that. Your focus now is on you and your kids.
H 56 W 48 D27,S21 SS25 SS22 Severely autistic M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs. "I've never loved you" 3/7/2011 Separated 8/7/2011 BITS
