I don't think that this goes against what is in the book in your case. You are going into this with no expectations and furthermore you are prepared for all the outcomes.
You are experimenting here......that is clearly outlined in the book.
Originally Posted By: Lonely Room
Am I going to blow it all?
No guarantees......besides what exactly are you going to blow???
The only thing you can mess up is if you take the focus off of YOU and put it on her........this contact that you are going to initiate should be such a small part of what you are working on.
I would be more interested to hear about YOU, things you are doing, books you are reading, realizations about yourself....etc.
Tell us about that.......that is where you can "blow it" by not doing those things.
cheers
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
